• Life flows in cycles and rhythms.

Ephesians 5:15–16 (ESV)
Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil.

  • Family rhythms are shared agreements about how a family spends its time.
  • The predictability of shared rhythms can create security, accountability, and anticipation.

“You have to learn the rules before you can break them.” – Pablo Picasso

DAILY RHYTHMS

  1. Family meals
  2. Bedtime
  3. Get outside
  4. Chores

WEEKLY AND MONTHLY RHYTHMS

  1. Family fun time
  2. Church
  3. Sabbath
  4. Date night
  5. Parent-kid dates
  6. Parent solo time

SEASONAL RHYTHMS

  1. Vacations
  2. Holidays
  3. Birthday celebrations
  4. Contact with extended family
  5. Community service and missions

Philippians 2:4 (ESV)
Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.

  • Busyness is the enemy of progress.

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 (ESV)
For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; a time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away; a time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; a time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace.

Ephesians 5:15-16 (ESV)
Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil.

Luke 14:28 (ESV)
For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it?

  • A Thriving Family Discovers a Common Story.
  • What does that look like without the healthy rhythms of a thriving family or what can it look like with the healthy rhythms of a thriving family?

Questions:

  • What did you hear from the Holy Spirit?
  • What will you do because of it?
  • How can we pray for you?

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